How To Resign With Style & Get
An Awesome Reference
by: Sarah Breinig
Resigning Can Be Challenging
The process of resigning and writing a letter of resignation can be
quite stressful and intimidating since this is usually very emotionally
charged.
Do Not Vent Any Grievances
The key to a successful resignation is to ensure that you do not transfer
any of your negative emotions either verbally or in written from. Your
objective is to keep it professional business like.
Your resignation letter should be drafted just like any other business
letter. Your letter of resignation will be the final document (along with
your exit interview notes) in your personnel file. Your resignation letter
will be among the first documents looked at when a prospective future employer
calls to confirm references or if you ever reapply.
Preserve Your Good Character & Reputation
Resigning the wrong way will "burn bridges" and will likely come back
to haunt you in the future. It will most certainly lead to bad feelings
between you and your employer, a bad reputation and even a bad reference.
Resigning the right way will contribute to your goodwill and continued
success in your career and personal development. You will also be able
to maintain good links with your colleagues - who may have a direct or
indirect impact on your future career progress.
Considerations Before Resigning
Carefully clear your mind and have a reality check. Evaluate all your
reasons for resigning before you decide conclusively. After you make up
your mind, be consistent and stick to it. Here are a few points to consider:
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How will you handle a counter offer? Don't resign in order to leverage
or negotiate a counter offer. It's unprofessional. Once you resign, your
loyalty to your employer is in question. If you are a valued employee,
you may be given a counter offer - but this may be just a way to keep you
longer until a replacement is found. Also, if you've already accepted an
offer with a new employer, retracting that offer may have a negative impact
on your integrity.
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Are you aware of company exit policy? Some companies will ask you to leave
immediately once you give your resignation. This could be a problem if
you were unable to pick up your personal belongings or documents from your
work area or clean up your personal files from your computer. Find out
how previous resignations were handled and don't give advanced notice of
your impending resignation.
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Are you aware of company compensation policy? You may automatically forfeit
specific benefits when you resign. You may loose upcoming bonuses, severance
pay, holiday entitlements, insurance benefits, retirement accounts, and
company stock contributions. Study all contracts you have signed to fully
understand this.
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Are you leaving for reasons that might require legal counsel? If so, then
consult an attorney before you submit a resignation or sign any documents.
Issues involving discrimination, harassment, safety and fraud is better
handled with the advice of an attorney
The Resignation Letter
A good resignation letter can be short and concise, however, an exceptional
letter of resignation accomplishes much more in that it leaves your current
employer with a positive feeling about you and establishes a basis for
positive references in the future.
Here are the points to consider for your resignation letter:
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Don't get personal or write personal remarks about your life and feelings
in your resignation letter.
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If you are leaving on bad terms, resist writing negative comments or complaints
about the company, the job or the employees in your letter of resignation.
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Clearly state that you are resigning and the effective resignation date.
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Indicate that you regret leaving and mention positive things about your
experience, your colleagues, your work and your company.
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Express enthusiasm and appreciation for the job and responsibility you've
held and the experience/knowledge you've gained.
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Emphasize and highlight your most important contributions to the company.
The Resignation Meeting
During your resignation meeting, you should be prepared for any kind
of reaction, ranging from congratulatory handshakes to guilt trips to out-and-out
confrontational anger. Your plan is to maintain composure, be courteous
and professional at all times. Here are a few points to keep in mind:
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Think ahead what you are going to say and stay with it - don't get derailed.
Your manager might want more details but at this stage you want to keep
it to the point.
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Focus on the positives no matter how satisfying it may seem to "unload."
Only discuss the positives regarding the company, the co-workers and the
job. Resist speaking anything negative - it simply will not do any good
and it may come back to haunt you.
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Stay on track. If you are given a counter offer, simply say, "I am not
here to get a counter offer - I have an opportunity that I can't pass up."
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End your meeting on a good note and show that you will be fully cooperative
with everyone until your last day and hand over your resignation letter
enclosed in an envelope.
Leaving On A Positive Note
Don't underestimate the importance of your performance during your last
few weeks. It's tempting to relax and release but this is not a good idea
as your professional reputation is at stake. Here are a few points to think
about:
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Remain focused. Continue to give it your very best effort right up until
the last minute you're there.
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Your co-workers will be curious about why you are leaving. Tell them exactly
what you told the company. Assume that anything you say will get back,
and negative comments you make can be used to make your co-workers look
loyal while making you look like a liar.
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Ensure that you’ve completed any outstanding tasks and participated in
the smooth handover of any unfinished work with accompanying documentation.
Keep your manager informed that you are actively participating in this
process and that you are being as co-operative as possible.
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Maintain a positive attitude about the company you are leaving and resist
gloating about your next job. Your colleagues will remember your professionalism.
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Spend some time to speak to all of your colleagues and associates. Thank
them for their support and their contribution to your time. Get their contact
information because they will be helpful to your future personal and career
development.
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If you have an exit interview, avoid any negative comments or criticisms.
If you did have problems, be objective and brief in your statements and
maintain your professionalism and composure.
About The Author
Sarah Breinig is an Independent Recruiter and Job Search Coach. She
is the 'webmistress' of http://www.best-online-job-search-tools.com
where you'll find information, resources, tools & strategies to EMPOWER
your job search.
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