"I like thinking BIG. If you're going to be thinking
anything, you might as well THINK BIG." *-- Donald Trump
"Cut the "im" out of impossible, leading that
dynamic word standing out free and clear -- possible."
*-- Norman Vincent
Peale
"Personal leadership is not a singular experience.
It is, rather, the ongoing process of keeping your vision and values before
you and aligning your life to be congruent with those most important things."
*--
Stephen Covey
"Act the part; walk and talk exactly as if you
were already the person you want to be." *-- Brian
Tracy
"Parties who want milk should not seat themselves
on a stool in the middle of the field in hope that the cow will back up
to them." *-- Elbert Hubbard
SelfHelp Guides
and Hints Visualize and
Give Your Dreams Substance If the whole idea of goal setting (and goal achieving) is a new one
to you, don't worry; the important thing is that you've decided to take
the bull by the horns and get started! Here's a technique to add substance
to the goals you've.........
They
Don’t Work - Forget New Year’s Resolutions The biggest majority of New Year’s Resolutions have gone by the wayside
before January is over and most won’t even be remembered six months later.
And the reason is pretty simple: Most are made in response to something
negative.........
Go
And Let Other People See Who You Really Are If we repress all our emotions from showing on our face, people will
feel frustrated trying to get a sense of who we really are. When
we let our emotions show up on our face, sharing in our conversation partner’s
joys and sorrows......
Live
in Confidence and Set Strong Boundaries Setting strong boundaries actually makes it easier, not harder, to
get close to people. That’s because boundaries tell other people what’s
acceptable for us and what isn’t. They create an atmosphere of honesty
and openness. They........
Live
Vicariously Through Yourself On a basic human level, every one of us share similar motivatioons.
For example, we all would like to be Successful. It’s a common belief that
if we can achieve Successs, we can achieve Happiness. With success and
happiness.........
Don't Under Estimate
The Power of Small Now, may I ask: How many times in your life have you thought that you
were "too small" to make a difference? How many times has this thought
actually stopped you from doing something you knew in your heart was worthwhile........
Lesson Of The
Tiniest of Gladiators This wasn't helping him to be sure (my daughter was much stronger than
I), but in spite, he not only survived the arduous ordeal, but he emerged
the victor! I am talking about my infant grandson, Corbin Nicolas,
clobbered with a.........
One Thing You
Must Know.... Now Imagine it: a golden sandy beach, littered with seaweed, bottle tops
and bird feathers; a place that had been battered by gale-force winds in
the preceding days. And with the setting sun, the needles of the Isle of
Wright in the distance.......
Benefit
from Your Creativity With Five Basic Steps Taking creative approach contributes to your emotional state the similar
way as the spice contributes to the taste of a course stimulating the appetite.
If you generate ideas and fulfill them, your life becomes more and more
interesting........
Love That Can Be Kept
Alive The concept of what it takes to keep love alive is really quite simple,
but not so easy to do. The simple answer is this: love flows between two
people whose hearts are open to learning and to sharing love. The hard
part is keeping the........
Hatred,
Healing Racism and Violence Because the wounded part of us is based on the core shame beliefs that
we are inadequate, flawed, defective, unimportant, and so on, we may feel
deeply one-down to others. In order to compensate for these difficult feelings
and...........
Not
Resentments Celebrate Togetherness We regress; we even lose some of our identity as independent adults.
The end result is that a holiday that is supposed to be a celebration of
gratitude, fellowship, and giving becomes an ordeal. It doesn't have
to be that way. Here are a few........
Practical
Stress Management and Solutions Stress is amazingly persistent, even seductive. We get used to feeling
tight and tense. Though positive thinking has its place, unless it is backed
up by practical wisdom it tends to get overwhelmed and fade away. Here
are seven proven...............
Personal
Success With A 12 Point Plan No one becomes successful by accident. Success requires making a plan
and sticking to it. It is simple, but does require commitment; it is not
hard to do, but does require hard work. The good news is that once you
begin, the results........
Motivate
Yourself Using Discouragement Getting motivated is sometimes easy enough to do, at least for short
periods of time, but staying motivated can be a lot harder to do. And when
you add into the mix the presence of negative people it is really not surprising
that your...............
How
to Use Discouragement to Motivate Yourself Ever feel like giving up? Do you ever feel so discouraged that even
one more day of frustration will be too much too handle?
Everyone gets discouraged at times only there are a number of key differences
between people who keep on...............
Don't
Developed Bad Habits That Rob You Of Motivation I can see now how a few bad choices in how I approached work affected
all aspects of my life. The same may be true for you. What we did
over the years was create bad habits that need to be given up and replaced
with a new.......
Tune
In Your Brain and Feel Motivated in Minutes For once he actually said something that interested me and I never
forgot what he said. Not because he was so original but because he was
the first person I heard saying it. That day he spoke about the untapped
potential of the human........
The Day For Lisa's Christmas Lisa was born into a loving Christian family and went through life
knowing of The Lord and his supreme sacrifice. She was accustomed to Amazing
Grace each Sunday and saying grace before meals. Lisa knew of the birth
of baby.......
How to
Achieve More by Dealing with Resistance Today I want to discuss the missing link in goal attainment... Your
personal succeess and achievement depends on your
ability to act upon what you know. Yet this is where most people stumble.
It is easy to find out what to............
The Secret
To Life Long Success And Fulfillment What Makes the Difference? On a warm spring afternoon, fifteen years
ago, two young men graduated from the same college. They were similar in
many ways... Like most ambitious, hard working students they had also enjoyed.................
You Can
Quickly And Easily Solve Your Problems Today I just wanted to write you a quick note to encourage you. Why?
Because even as you are doing your best to be motivated there will be days
when it all seems too much. No matter how challenging life gets bear in
mind the.................
That
One Thing That Guarantees Your Unlimited Motivation And Success What can you do when you do not feel like getting started? When procrastination
takes over... We all know what that feels like. You sit there staring at
the mountain of work in front of you while your mind screens a horror movie
of...............
14 Reasons
To Get Motivated And Stay Motivated Why should you bother to spend your valuable time to learn how to get
motivated and stay motivated? Here´s why. Your quality of life will
change dramatically when you take charge of how motivated you feel in any
given....................
The "Greatest"
Leaders Are Often The Worst Leaders It's a common occurrence, a CEO leads
a company to record earnings, retires and in months, those once high-flying
earnings are dropping like shot ducks. Observers blame the new leadership
team. But most likely the observers are................
That
First Step To Massive Success Do you ever procrastinate? So do I! I had some work to do yesterday
and I kept putting it off. I thought to my self - I´ll wait until
later when I feel more alert and in the right frame of mind to do it just
right Do you ever do this? Then it hit me.......
Who Are The Underminers? How many of you had the experience growing up of being told in various
ways to limit yourselves from being all you can be? The movie “The Incredibles”
is a wonderful metaphor for this. In this movie, the superheroes – the
people................
Are
You Stuck? Consider Changing Your Focus! If you sometimes feel as though you’re caught in life’s quicksand,
you have a lot of company. We work, we struggle, we try to do everything
we possibly can to move on to a higher level of well-being but it seems
like the harder.................
Run Your
Own Race - At Your Own Pace On Thanksgiving Day, dawn spills over Dana Point Harbor where thousands
of runners gather for the annual Turkey Trot. The largest holiday race
in California beckons folks of all ages, sizes, shapes, and abilities.
Waiting at the starting.........
How
To Stay Positive In spite of The Negativity Around You I'm often asked how it is that I stay so positive. Now allow me to
clear up some misconceptions you might have based on that last statement.
I am not one of those folks that walk around with what is commonly referred
to as a career................